What do you desire? What makes you itch? What sort of a situation would you like?
So I always ask the question, "what would you like to do if money were no object? How would you really enjoy spending your life?"
Better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing than a long life spent in a miserable way. And after all, if you do really like what you're doing, it doesn't matter what it is, you can eventually turn it – you could eventually become a master of it. - Alan Watts