No, he’s fat. At least he admits it. But unlike being gay, it’s something he can change. Admitting it is the first step, deciding to change your lifestyle and get into shape is the rest of it. Yes, love yourself. But don’t just accept the way you are as unchangeable, immutable. I was fat. I got better. Others can do it too. It’s all about self-respect and actually deciding to live a better life. And it’s 70% diet and lifestyle, only 30% gym.