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      Honestly everyone copes differently to problems and obviously there are all kinds of issues, but what good is it to be ostracize and ridicule someone who is asking for help? Pretty much all problems are murky and that is why people end up struggling with them whether they have other issues to deal with or not. That is where we come in, we can give supportive insight or suggestions, but what is the point of adding to someone’s pain? It’s actually strange to me that someone would go out of their way to be a jerk like that. I mean really why did you bother going over and reading it? If you really hated the idea of giving people attention then why would you comment to them, since by that thread they would want any attention. How about using that time to show some compassion and helping someone else, or at least doing something that makes you happy without bringing someone else down.  Honestly if she see’s this, I sincerely hope she understands she needs to be open with herself. Once she can be honest with herself and get some trust for her therapist then it will make it easier to figure out her issues, they will still be difficult to look at sometimes, but she will be in a safe place to talk. As for the guilt she has, it is understandable, but unreasonable. She understands the gravity of her situation and what it would mean to her parents but at the same time self loathing is an unreasonable beast which is why it may be difficult for her to cope. Just please value yourself, you’re life is precious, and you are definitely precious to your parents. I don’t completely agree with the setup of your page, but the support and courage you give people to keep living is really commendable, and I really hope you all can treasure yourselves more and find some happiness and peace.

    • purplespider

      How was this selfish? I read this by my own choice and honestly it was interesting. It was another view of life and another story and it is another piece that is part of this crazy mosaic that is life and being part of humanity. There is no reason to belittle yourself or your problems either. Everyone and everything is constantly changing so what was so difficult one day can be completely pointless the next, like the idea of trying to step in the same spot of a stream but it isn’t ever the same due to time and movement. I hope writing this was cathartic for you and helpful, and I really do hope that you take in to account that this can help someone in a similar situation. For me, I was simply happy to read that posting this comment gave you some peace. For me I find calm in art or just having something to concentrate on. I think you might enjoy creative writing, and hope all the best for you :)please remember that you and your feelings are valid and are things to be treated with respect and sensitivity. Oh and about therapy, the thing is they will not have a bias on you that friends and family might. They are meant to be professionals who can help you sort through this issues while being objective. As for conversations, who knows there are tons of people out there and someone just might have something new or interesting to converse about.