#4. I’m not sure I get it. Is showing natural curiosity about a friend or roommate’s romantic options considered rude? It seems stripe-shirt asexual is a little confused about what he is/wants, but the questions did not seem probing or rude. I love people, though. I want us all to be who we need to be and to be loved for it, unquestionably. And I feel we are getting there. The road is bumpy and the destination is unclear, but we are moving forward. Love, y’all.