i dont like the fact that your trying to say oh men wish they were there because men are the ones that made it that way it is today. in todays time you can do what you like if you like to change roles. then do it. but making sacrafices is what comes from being a parent which today no one wants to make. and not to mention you speak for a small portion of men out there. most guys are still being raised to be the bread winner and even have a working wife.