Buzz·Posted on 27 Apr 201522 Times Tumblr Got Real About Being DesiMe: *visits relative I haven’t seen since I was 2* Relative: have you gained weight?by Nirali ShahBuzzFeed India ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. On dying alone: View this post on 2. On finding a partner: View this post on 3. On fool proof methods to success: View this post on 4. On our obsession with mangoes: View this post on Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. On our obsession with marriage: View this post on 6. On trying to lose weight as a desi: View this post on 7. On dreading turning into the most loathsome creature of all, the "aunty": View this post on 8. On Google being hella wrong: View this post on 9. On really big, really fat Indian weddings: View this post on 10. On wake-up alarms: 11. On 'adjusting': View this post on 12. On grades: View this post on 13. On food bringing out emotions: View this post on 14. On childhood fantasies: View this post on 15. On trust issues: View this post on 16. On daydreaming: 17. On Indian clothes as obstacles: View this post on 18. On rampant baby-shaming: View this post on 19. On the exceptional Indian cinematic experience: 20. On blasphemy: View this post on 21. On being unsafe at weddings: 22. On being ruined by everything: View this post on Follow BuzzFeed India on Facebook