Now this is something you all should be worried about.. Not a cute little backpack with a harness on it. Walking WITH your toddler harnessed holding their hand and not forcefully leading them as if they are animals. There is a right way to use the harness and a wrong way. Personally I would use one as things are not the same as they were when I was a toddler. Isn’t it better to be safe and ridiculed than forever sorry !!