No, I got that. My point was that we shouldn’t make broad generalizations and assume that because some people behave one way it means all other members of the same sex are exactly the same. I’m saying there are legitimately nice guys out there who don’t expect anything. Some may want and hope more, but doesn’t mean that they are jerks when they don’t get anything more. Friendship, like any relationship, needs a clear understanding of expectations and if those expectations don’t match, there is no friendship in the first place.