This post has not been vetted or endorsed by BuzzFeed's editorial staff. BuzzFeed Community is a place where anyone can create a post or quiz. Try making your own!Buzz·Posted on Sep 3, 201518 Times #GrowingUpTheOldestChild Was Way Too RealYou were here first, you call the shots.by Maddi LewisCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Whenever you heard this classic line. Brean Buchholz @BreanBuchholz #growinguptheoldestMom: I expected more from you 04:02 PM - 19 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 2. Those super fun judgmental stares. kendall travis @kendi_travis #GrowingUpTheOldestChild being looked at as a teen mom when having a younger sibling with you in public 08:44 PM - 30 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Nicole Mendes @nicole_malone19 #GrowingUpTheOldestChild getting dirty looks from old women when I'm in public with my younger siblings because they assume I'm a teen mom 11:08 PM - 03 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 3. Catching on to your parents' bull: Marissa @VogelKatzen #growinguptheoldest When your younger sibling gets to do everything at an earlier age and you had to wait 05:11 PM - 23 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 4. The struggle of being the default, unpaid babysitter: ashton @ashtonledford #GrowingUpTheOldestChild "I need you to stay home and watch your siblings" 03:48 AM - 02 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 5. When everything you've ever done is somehow wrong. Em @__emmilyb #growinguptheoldestchild being criticized for everything you do because you're suppose to set a "good" example 05:11 AM - 30 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 6. And all bad behavior is somehow your fault. Ash @ashleyyrobless #growinguptheoldestchild getting that "they are going to follow your footsteps" speech when you do something bad 04:47 AM - 30 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 7. When your siblings weren't into your impromptu parenting skills. amy rosalie @AmyValdes14 #GrowingUpTheOldest hearing "you're not the boss" every time you babysit 02:02 AM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 8. Those few golden privileges. lauren @_laurenntolleyy #GrowingUpTheOldestChild always getting front seat until they think they're old enough and try to take the only good thing you have left 01:41 AM - 22 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 9. Being the official chauffeur once you got your license. scarlett @scarlettdiana14 #GrowingUpTheOldestChild having to drive your sibling everywhere and picking up their friends :-) 04:08 PM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 10. Having to just shrug this off when you were actually furious inside. Leah Haley @LeahHaley17 #GrowingUpTheOldestChild when your parents are more lenient towards your younger siblings 😛 12:40 AM - 21 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 11. Realizing you were pretty much an experiment. Lauren Lewis @soarinlauren21 #GrowingUpTheOldestChild being the guinea pig for all the rules & always getting punished for things your siblings never will 02:18 PM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 12. How everyday was a battle. Pey2000lbs @_peytonmann #GrowingUpTheOldestChild your younger siblings teaming up on you to try and annoy you. 01:18 AM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 13. Really, though. Isabella Hill @HeyIsabxlla #growinguptheoldestchild when your little sibling starts to cry and blame you for something you didn't do .-. 07:17 PM - 02 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 14. But if you engaged, you were at fault. Jordan☀️ @JordanSettle #GrowingUpTheOldestChild *brother hits me so I hit him back* mom: "DONT HIT YOUR BROTHER" oh ok mom 08:25 PM - 19 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite ᗰαяιαh❁ @SimplyRiah_ #GrowingUpTheOldestChild "Are you really fighting with him. YOURE OLDER act like it. " 09:43 PM - 19 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 15. No plans were ever guaranteed to be set in stone. Mrs. Laïka @LaikaOthello #growinguptheoldestchild having to ruin your plans bc you have to babysit 08:50 PM - 19 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Samantha Assael @sunshinestreets #growinguptheoldestchild having to cancel plans last minute bc mom has to go out and she needs someone to watch the other kids 02:52 AM - 16 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 16. Extra chores literally just became "chores." annika || tests :( @beachylwt #GrowingUpTheOldestChild 'do the dishes because your sibling is too young' 08:12 PM - 05 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 17. When all doors were open doors. billiee @bee_reitzz #GrowingUpTheOldestChild what's privacy?🚫 02:09 PM - 05 Aug 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite 18. And your whole life can be summed up in one word: pressure. Gracious Me @Chanay_Please #growinguptheoldestchild tbh I felt like I had to mature and be responsible at a earlier age 05:52 AM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite crimson @foolishflower #GrowingUpTheOldestChild the pressure of having to be the perfect human example for ur younger siblings 12:32 AM - 20 Jul 2015 Reply Retweet Favorite Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF