A child that is wanted is a child the moment the mom and/or dad becomes aware of the pregnancy. For someone who wants kids, loosing a child one day after conception (if you could know right when it happens) is heart breaking and one of the worst feeling in the world.
I don’t want kids. I’ve never wanted kids. For me, a pregnancy would be an annoying inconvenience and getting an abortion wouldn’t bother me on an emotional level. My best friend, however, who has a daughter, would he devastated if she lost a child, even one too small to see with the naked eye. Commenting with anti-abortion propaganda on an article about a child that was wanted but sadly died at birth is about as cruel as it gets. But that’s usually what we get from people like you.