As someone stated earlier, this experience is from a Reform (possibly Conservative) perspective. Many of us went to Jewish day school but many of our peers were only able to afford Hebrew school in the evenings at synagogue to learn the prayers and culture in addition to Sunday school. We all still know our prayers and attend shabbat and holiday services as often as possible. Even if I do not get a chance to go every week, who are you to say that makes me less Jewish than you are? I identify as Jewish, it is who I am (Jewish American vs. American Jew). Please stop being so judgmental, it’s a commandment after all.