No, in fact, I’ve had very attractive men cat call me and it’s equally as disgusting. It makes a person very unattractive pretty fast, and it also tells me something is wrong with you and you may attack me when you speak to me with “such benign comments”. A benign comment is “Good morning.” Not “Hey baby whatchu doin’? I like dat yah” ……. That tells me you’re not exactly looking for a library. Dig? It’s not about attractive/unattractive, it’s about the sense of impending danger. It’s sleazy.