The problem is that exploring sexuality and relationships in your 20’s is complex. In that, you might do things (or not do them) for reasons you couldn’t really explain to yourself. Not to mention, yrs. after, you might feel differently about it. My point: While I agree w/ AHP’s broader points, asking Lawrence to use this to affect our views on sexuality/the human body is problematic and unfair. If everyone’s right, they’re at least 1.5 yrs. old, likely more. At 24, two yrs. is an eternity in growing and understanding one’s self. Who knows how she feels, beyond feeling utterly violated, about them now? She might not fully know that answer herself. Let her sort that out (or not! she shouldn’t HAVE to) first.