I don’t think it’s disturbing that the character Christian Grey exists. I think the journey of an abused man is interesting and if the book were actually well written it’d probably be pretty good.What is worrisome is that women are falling head over heels with an abusive person. I don’t give a crap if you were abused as a child. Does not give you the right to be abusive yourself and we should not be accepting of a fairy tale that promotes putting up with it until he changes. This book is reckless and the support of this book as a fairy tale is reckless as well.