Hi Ezra, I am a fan of yours. I think you are worrying about a lot of things you need not worry. I am 51 and 1/2 years old. It seems that alot of themes you address in your songs (that i love) are about growing old. It s great to be old. Don’t worry so much. If you love the person you live with and appreciate how cool your kids are (Who introduced me to Vampire Weekend) Then growing old is sooooo much fun. chillax. xoxo I think you are very talent ed. xoxoxo A mom type.