1. You feel like you’re always giving 110% without getting much in return.
2. (Especially if you’re pursuing a career in the arts.)
3. Your life ambitions feel more fragile than ever, thanks to how hard it is to find a job.
4. The gap between minimum wage and the cost of living leaves you consistently disillusioned.
5. In fact, money is pretty much always on your mind.
You mention how high your rent is, how little your job pays, how much everything costs, or all of the above on the daily.
6. And even if you have tons of money, the plethora of entertainment options in the city can make you feel overwhelmed.
7. With its constant busyness and vast population, the city easily makes you feel entirely insignificant.
8. And between earning enough to pay for your home, having a relationship, and seeing your friends, it truly feels like chaos reigns supreme.
9. You both desire and regret $7 desserts.
10. Finding a steady romantic partner is difficult, especially with the ever-prevailing hookup culture.
And it’s just never as satisfying as it is in the movies.
11. You either smoke, or have strongly considered it.
Especially when you’re stressed, which is probably like 95% of the time.
12. Most people see your love for New York as a phase that will go away once you get older.
13. You yourself sometimes have trouble remembering what on earth made you think a life in New York was going to be fulfilling.
14. You see NYC as always taunting you and trying to see if you’ll actually move.
15. You even wonder if New York is just a training ground — if you can make it here, you can make it anywhere.
16. So you’ve thought about moving elsewhere because, with how impossibly small you feel in NYC, maybe you could flourish in a different city.
17. But just when you start considering a life in the Catskills, New York reminds you why you stay.
18. Like: no matter what the occasion, or what time, New York is ALWAYS ready to party with you.
24/7 transportation and bars that stay open until the early hours of the morning, helloooooo.
19. And it’s been the place great artists and thinkers have praised for helping them figure out who they are.
Despite how tough it was.
20. Also, weed is ridiculously easy to get.
Everyone smokes. No one cares.
21. Living in New York feels like living in a different dimension altogether.
And it looks crazy to anyone who’s not in it.