Australia Apologizes To Thousands Of Women For Forced Adoptions

A horrifying policy from the 1950s-1970s gets formal government acknowledgement.

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“I wasn’t informed about any other option really except adoption. ‘Only selfish mothers keep their babies.’ I was told that, and … if I really loved her, I would do what’s best for her.”
— Faye Nyssen

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“A nurse came and sat down beside me and smiled. And I thought, ‘Oh thank God there’s a smiling face!’ Anyway, she settles herself down beside me and pulled up a chair, and proceeded to take a leather shackle from her uniform. And she started strapping up my right wrist … I didn’t know what she was doing, and then she secured me to the side of the bed. So I became unconscious. And I don’t know how long I was unconscious for, but when I eventually came to, my son was gone.”
— Jan Kishin

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“I woke up in the corridor in the early hours of the morning, and I had blood all over me — that was all I remember. I don’t remember anything else. I don’t remember signing any papers, I don’t remember people coming to see me or anything like that … It was a form of punishment. We were naughty girls, and we didn’t deserve to have our babies. And that’s the way I’ve lived since I was 22. I have lived with that shame — that I was a naughty girl — and I had to be punished.”
— Monica Jones

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“I was always wondering what was wrong with me. I was traumatised most of my life and didn’t know it. I had no insight into what drove me. I didn’t become conscious of the adoptions until the late ’90s, when I heard another mother’s story.”
— Patsy Gall

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“We’ve been carrying the blame wrongfully for all these years — 37 years for me. You know, I’ve lost contact with a lot of family through the shame. People think that you’re a bad person ‘cause you gave your baby away. Yeah, they need to know that we didn’t give our babies away. We weren’t given our babies in the first place. Can’t give away something you didn’t get.”
— Margaret Freeman

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    • Jmac 2 months ago

      “Bullying from a society that presumed to know whats best” a bit rich coming from Julia “Gays Are Evil” Gillard

      • abrasive a month ago

        Ten points for making an apology to thousands of women and children torn apart by state-sanctioned kidnapping about the fact that gay people can’t get married yet. Boo-fucking-hoo. Yes, marriage equality is important to a lot of people. No, that doesn’t mean you get to usurp the pain and suffering of others. Have some respect for the people who are featured in this story. And FYI, in the scheme of things Australian society does which could be deemed bullying, I’d say the Intervention and refugee policy rank higher than whether or not my girlfriend and I can sign a piece of paper designed by a heteronormaitve society.

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    • Miss Cellania 2 months ago

      Calling it “forced adoption” focuses on the wrong part of this tragedy. Call it what it was: “kidnapping.”

    • Becky J 2 months ago

      No, it certainly isn’t ‘anti-adoption’. You can be basically in favour of something (like adoption) as an option, but still be disgusted at the idea of it being forced on someone. These stories are horrific, and I fear it’s a wrong that can’t possibly be put right, unfortunately.

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    • owmykidneys 2 months ago

      Absolutely not anti adoption. It isn’t about adoption as such, it was a shameful assumption that single women were not capable and we’re not given any choice. Nowhere does it suggest that adoption itself is wrong.

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    • ecochic 2 months ago

      Terrible ordeal for these women, but anyone else think this I anti-adoption?

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