as a “nice guy” myself I find some of this very true and some of it a bit off. First off I’d like to say that at one point most of the list I did do. I didn’t realize it at the time, I just thought I had bad luck. Now about the whole “I did nice things why aren’t you on my dick” I was never like that. The only time I got anywhere like that is when I was being flirted back with only to find out I was being used. Now as to the “you won’t date me friendship over” Right now there is a girl I have a crush on. We got into a huge fight, and during the fight I admitted that I liked her. I apologized two days afterwards, and we really didn’t talk for about three weeks. After that we both apologized and we are still best friends. Yes I’m still in love with her, but I know she won’t be mine and so I am looking else where. I still drive her places as she can’t drive right now and I show up and stay be her when she is having a bad time and needs someone there. Next I’d like to point out the nice guys finish last. First of all, I heard this more from people making fun of me for being the nice guy. Second I’ve flipped it. Nice guys finish last be we get to keep what we have. After the girls are finish with jerks that wants them only for sex most of the time I have found that end up with the nice guys, so it’s not a trophy, it’s an outlook. Yes nice guys needs to be aware of how they act. But I could easily make a list like this for jocks preps and bad boys. Realize please that most nice guys are the way we are because we want the person of our affections to be happy, we just aren’t always clued into how we are…..just like many other people who are in relationships which turned up ending.