“And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me…Why can’t it be a choice? Why is that any less legitimate? It seems we’re just ceding this point to bigots who are demanding it, and I don’t think that they should define the terms of the debate” cynthia wins. and the idiot who posted this and said “Um, thanks for giving ammunition to bigots?” is an idiot (and not just for the grammar)

Your headline does more damage than anything she said.  She chose to be gay. So what? Good for her. She makes it quite clear that she doesn't think it's a choice for everyone. She's not the enemy, guys.

wow this isn't much better than a fox news shock and awe misleading headline.

um, thanks for completely missing the point, buzzfeed.

Actual quote: “And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me.”