I was bullied, or at least people attempted to on multiple occasions. I’ve never been one to take insult lying down. I agree with her sentiment but not how she presented it. Leaving notes for people you stood up is juvenile and cowardly. Look your bully in the face and say, “You hurt me. I still remember. It still pains me. You gave me an eating disorder. Why in God’s name would I want to date or befriend you? Just because you’re over it, that doesn’t mean it didn’t have a lasting impact. I want you to know I’ve grown up and my life has turned around, but what you did still leaves invisible wounds.” Say it, to the person’s face. If you aren’t a kid anymore, if you’ve grown up— show it. Understand that kids are bastards sometimes, and just like you grew up, they may have too! If I we were all perpetually 12 the whole world would be burned down by now. It’s good to be honest, it’s good to air grievances, but this only shows you grew in figure but not in maturity.