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The Douchebags are EVERY bit as misogynistic and feel every bit as entitled to a women’s body than the so called nice guys…Yet chicks can’t get enough of them….The whole entitlement crap is just a red herring…Women don’t like nice guys for other reasons but their sense of “entitlement” is not one of them….Other wise the douchebags would also be getting the boot…and well we know that doesn’t happen

Cut the bullshit…Girls aren’t attracted to nice guys and the so called “nice guy sense of entitlement” has nothing to do with it…The bad boy/aholes feel EVERY BIT as entitled to sex as the nice guy does and yet women have no problem dropping their pants for them…Funny how the nice guy sense of entitlement over a women’s body is so repulsive but somehow the douchebags equal sense of entitlement (if not more so) is acceptable?? Pfft just admit you don’t like nice guys for other reasons and that the whole entitlement thing is crap…and than we can move on to another topic

Ya know, Bubba,
You can cut her off yourself if you feel the friendship is emotionally unhealthy. Granted, I’ve done the same thing before when I developed feelings for a platonic friend, which totally destroyed the relationship, thank god I learn from my mistakes.

The problem is that, although you’ve said that being nice doesn’t entitle you to anything, you clearly feel that women who have let you down in this way have wronged you somehow. Take the phrase “you’ve allowed another person to feel there is a mutual attraction”. The fact that you have incorrectly come to the conclusion that there is a mutual attraction is in no way her fault.

For the record, someone who says things they don’t mean IS a “type” of person: a liar. Sparing someone’s feelings would be telling them the truth, not leading them on with falsehoods. “Letting you down easy” is a myth, because if you’ve allowed another person to feel there is mutual attraction and there isn’t then you sleep in the bed you made and you don’t get to get off easy on hurting someone’s feelings. Spending time with someone you think is creepy, clingy and pitiable is not tactful, it’s emotionally manipulative and selfish. But, I wasn’t talking about instances where girls are not into me (trust me there have been plenty of those to know the difference). The attraction is palpable, but the relationship doesn’t happen because they find it easier to date someone less emotionally mature, or just not date anyone at all.  Thanks for all the hurtful, clueless and unhelpful responses though!

I wonder, the one comic says that these “fake ncie guys” are just emotionally manipulative and bitter when they don’t get their way. I think the same could be said of women who know men are interested in them and keep them in that “friend zone”.

What you mean by “girls like that” is girls that are not romantically interested in you. Maybe they’re not attracted to you, maybe all that stuff they’re saying about how you’re “such a nice guy” is just to spare your feelings. Whatever the case, this is not a “type” of girl. It’s not them, it’s you.