I am a mormon grandmother of a gay grandson…I understand the pain you are all feeling … what I do not understand is the hatred that many of you have towards the church. Other than prop 8 and the churches teachings concerning homosexuality … they have come a very long way towards accepting the gay members and teaching the members the higher law to love one another as the Savior loves each of us. I think it is not producive to continue to criticize and to spew hate towards a church that only wishes to reach out within the confines of the commandments. You have every right to disagree but please allow us the same respect that you wish us to show to you for you to show to us. Do you honestly think anything will change when there is discord. The church will never be 100% supportive of a lifestyle that they feel is against church doctrine…just accept that fact and be respectful. If we are to come to an understanding and an acceptance of one another than we need to accept what will not change within the church and move on.