this is utterly stupid and insulting. there’s barely a word here about getting bullied, beat up, harassed, not a word about the silent terror of the closet in which most teens who don’t live in the liberal suburbs of major metropolitan areas have to hide for fear of their lives, not a word about the fear of being thrown out of the house or exiled from your community, not a word about the utter day-to-day terror of being outed. if you think this doesn’t happen anymore, then you’re not paying attention to life in the so-called “real” america. to make matters worse, the crap you say here applies almost exclusively to middle class white boys. there is little to nothing that is specific to teen lesbians or to people of color. So, your article is not only stupid and ignorant, but it is also sexist and racist. get your shit together buzz feed. and those of you reading it—this is not “cute” it is not “lol” it is not a “win.” It is rude, stupid, insulting bullshit.