For a woman who does not want to have children, I respect both sides of the ‘baby making’ cause and wish to get the respect back. I am now in my mid thirties and my husband and I both know that we have no desire for children. And there is nothing wrong with that, as much as people try to tell us otherwise. I do think it odd to say ‘I don’t want children be use it will change my body’. Everyone has the right to choose, I do wonder if their sole reason is my body will change that there must be some underlying issues. The entire process of pregnancy and birth must be scary to some people, than to know your body will never be the same afterwards. We can’t simply shame people if they are scared of the whole experience, that’s not okay either.