None of your “examples” are realistic, in the least. You list a few EXTREME things, that no one would ever really say… or take seriously. So I should hide/lie who I really am…. initially anyway… and then later I should tell the guy the truth? After about 2 week, perhaps? Or maybe 2 months? What good does that do???? I want to know anything/everything… as soon as possible. What is gained by hiding/lying initially… and then “eventually” telling the bad news?