Unfortunately, for those of us who are fat, other people feel they would be remiss if they didn’t remind us of how “unhealthy” that is. Do they really think that we didn’t know that? But fat does not equal unhealthy 100% of the time, and even if it did, there is no truly successful way to lose weight AND keep it off for an obese person. Society doesn’t want to believe that, but it is true. It is NOT just a matter of exercising more and eating less. If it were, does anyone truly believe those of us dealing with this would not find a way to become thin? The amount of scorn that rains down on a fat person is truly not understood by the rest of society. But ultimately, my response is, it’s none of your damn business. I was born this way, to quote a popular singer, and you can keep your opinions to yourself, well-intentioned as you may believe them to be.