Poor mama, the world is unfair place to live in when you’re just trying to be yourself. I would like to add being that I am a natural that it’s also time for people of my race to stop the self-hating of their race which in turn hates on us naturals. Let me explain. You would be shocked to know the amount of black people I run into that give me the dirty look for being natural. I always want to stop them and say “listen girl, don’t be ashamed to show people of your natural state, because you want a weave and to be a ‘Kardashian’ that’s not you.” Unfortunately for centuries black people in America have been so conditioned of what our hair should be like for “success”. Some black people in America can hate on you when you’re natural.