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  • Stupid Flanders 2 years ago

    I think, to some degree, advising women to dress less provocatively is like telling someone to avoid a bad neighborhood. Sure, getting shot in that neighborhood is in no way your fault, but it’s simply not wise to take a stroll through a statistically high-crime neighborhood. Similarly, the blame for rape should never be placed on a woman. However, I would say it’s wise to advise women to not dress in ways that make it easy for men to picture them a sexual sort of way. You might argue that rapists have deep psychological problems that are more complicated than just an urge for sex, but I think a good portion of them (especially the younger ones, i.e. high-school or college age) are just desperate for sex. And they see “slutty” girls as providing a much easier opportunity to satisfy that need. But again, I disagree with the claim that the responsibility to avoid rape lies in the woman’s hands. It’s always the rapist’s fault. I’m just saying that conservative clothing is, perhaps in a minority of cases, less likely to “provoke” rape, as much as that can happen. But if freedom of expression is more important to women (and I’m not saying it shouldn’t), then it is their choice to make. I’d really like to see some sort of study questioning rapists about the basis on which they chose their victim. I’m sure it must have something to do with appearance.

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    • keieeeye 2 years ago

      More women are raped in burqas than bikinis. There have been studies on rapists’ behaviour. They pick women they will get away with raping. That means those who will be too scared to report it - because they had had any amount of alcohol, because they were sexually active, because they’d flirted, because they’d invited a man into their room, because they have less social clout than the man, because they have low self-esteem, because they’ve been taught their entire lives that if someone rapes them, IT’S THEIR FAULT. Anyone who ever tells a woman how she can prevent being raped is an accomplice to the system that lets men get away with raping.

    • nolameim 2 years ago

      It’s NOT about sex. It’s NEVER about sex. If a guy was just straight up desperate he’d find a call girl or something. Rape is about POWER. If you were “desperate for sex” would you be able to rape someone? Would you continue despite knowing you’re making someone else suffer for your own pleasure? It’s NOT about sex.

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