Her and Bethenny can compare tips on how to make their ex-husband’s lives a living hell through the divorce process. Aside from the upkeep on 8 kids, and the additional cost of security, she’s using her lawyers to bleed Jon dry. Meanwhile Jon’s working as a waiter, and a frequent victim of tabloid humiliation. When does he get to go on a daytime talk show and speak to an audience of “fathers”? Never, right? No one cares. His story isn’t worth telling because he’s the schmuck father. That’s not worth the sympathy of the audience, not like a divorced mother with 8 kids.