Committed heterosexual couples can reproduce, nurse, and raise their own biological children. Homosexual couples cannot. Heterosexual couples are necessary to the existence and survival of the human race. Homosexual couples are not. While homosexuals are free to engage in whatever relationships they choose in their pursuit of happiness, society does not have the same vested interest in supporting or granting benefits to those relationships as marriages. This is not hate speech, ignorance, or intolerance; it is a simple, fundamental fact of life. And no amount of name-calling, propaganda, whining, or political rhetoric will change it. While the government is not allowed to bend to the whim of any one religion, it is also not allowed to bend to the whim of irreligion over religion. When it comes to the morality of homosexual behavior, it is specifically condemned in the scriptures of the three major world religions - Christianity, Judaism, and Islam; as well as the scriptures of many minor religions such as Rastafarianism, Scientology, and Baha'i; and is traditionally prohibited in Eastern religions including Buddhism, Taoism, and Hinduism, though not specifically mentioned in scripture. It has also been considered immoral by the vast majority of human societies and cultures around the world throughout history up until the rise of secular humanism in the last 15 years. Thus there is a consensus among a wide range of belief systems that homosexual behavior is wrong. It is odd that liberals claim to uphold the values of tolerance and diversity while actively seeking to exclude every opinion but their own. All that said, in the case of Iowa, where voters (i.e. THE PEOPLE) voted to recognize gay marriage, though I disagree with their decision, I respect it. But in the case of California, activist judges are being used to overturn the democratic decision and Will of the People. Everyone, regardless of their political leanings, should have a huge problem with this. While many people write off opposition to gay marriage as “hate” or “ignorance,” that argument is simply not true, and quite frankly, is silly and childish, not to mention is in itself a position of bigotry and intolerance. I have many homosexual friends, I've worked with homosexuals, I've worked for homosexuals, and I've hired homosexuals. Additionally, there are other gay rights issues I have fully supported in the past including the overturn of DADT, the repeal of archaic anti-sodomy laws, and the opposition to Tennessee's “Don't Say Gay” bill. I don't hate homosexuals, I feel no animosity towards them, I wish no violence or injustice against them, and I have no desire to see them denied their rights. However the claim that gay marriage is an issue of “rights” in the first place is logically flawed. Gay people, as well as all people, already have the right to get married. Everyone is free to find a committed lifelong relationship with someone of the opposite sex and gain the privileges associated with it. But just as some people choose to live in non-committed heterosexual relationships, have multiple sexual partners, live in polyamorous relationships, or live by themselves, gay people, based on their own desires, choose to pursue relationships that do not fit the definition of marriage. It is not, nor has it ever been, that they are ineligible to marry; it is that they instead choose to engage in alternative relationships. And they're perfectly free to do so. There is also no reasonable analogy between gay marriage and interracial marriage. Interracial marriage has existed as long as marriage has existed, it fits the definition and function of marriage, and was only made illegal through specific legislation that sought to have it prohibited based on skin color. Homosexual “marriage” on the other hand never existed in the first place and does not fit the structure and function of a marriage. It was not illegal or prohibited, but was simply not a thing because it does not fall under the definition of what marriage is and what marriage means. All this said, I tend to believe that gay “marriage” will eventually be accepted and legalized widely in our society. Mostly because people are naive and are more swayed by emotional cries of “That hurts my feelings” rather than rational, logical arguments. I do not care if I am on the wrong side of history, I am more interested in being on the side of truth and reason. I will stand up for gay people and all people where their claims are sound but will oppose them when their position is flawed. And whether you want to hear it or not, gay marriage is absurd.