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    Shocking And Disturbing Male Desires

    Do you know that one dumb & senseless desire that every man frantically needs, craves longs for, yet most women are blind & oblivious to it? Know More About His private desire (This drives him wild with LOVE)

    Top 6 Secrets Of males about sex.

    Do you know the secret psychology behind how men

    fall in love?

    Have you ever had a man feel such unconditional &

    never-ending love for you that he could kiss or hug you

    a thousand times & still not be satisfied?

    1. We Don't Actually Want Sex All The Time

    We just think we're supposed to want it all the time, and unfortunately, this seems to be what women think too. It's extraordinarily difficult for a man to say no to guaranteed sex, not only because it's considered unmanly, but because women tend to assume that something's "wrong." Nothing's wrong. Just like women, we only want sex... when we wantit. The problem is that we're often terrible at knowing the difference between sex we want and sex we don't want until the awkward post-coital embrace. We really need to work on that one.


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    The Dumbest thing that makes him fall in LOVE!
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    How guys know when they're in LOVE.

    2. Sex=Validation

    We're racked with self doubt, constantly. We try to ignore it, we cover it up with obnoxious bravado, and occasionally, we actually try to work on the bad habits that are making us feel so lousy about ourselves. Mostly, we try to push away feelings of inadequacy because we're afraid that we won't be attractive to women if we present as anything but totally confident. It sucks.

    There is a moment, though, when the inner critic just has to shut his stupid little mouth and let the grown-ups talk. It's the moment of orgasm, followed by the collapse into a woman's arms. That's the best.

    3. It Is About Power

    The domination thing is no myth, but it's not a scary bad thing either. We want you lost in a raging, out of your mind, forgetting your own name, ocean of ecstasy. We want to you to completely lose control and we want to be the guy who took it from you. But, really, it's not about power 'cause everybody wins, right?

    4. We're Distant Because We Care

    Sexual prowess is the Holy Grail of manhood. More than success, more than athleticism, more than witty banter-- if we're not killer in the sack, we've failed as men. And there's a lot of ways we can fail. It can be over too fast or it can take waaaay too long. We can be too rough or too gentle. We're afraid if we're too emotional you might assume we're head over heels in love with you or, worse yet, we might totally creep you out. Worst of all, there's the fear that we won't get you off.

    While some women can orgasm from physical sensation alone, for many, it's a more complex equation. Something like-- Physical Stimulation+Feeling of Safety+Feeling of Danger+Loss of Control+Power+Crossing Our Fingers and Hoping For The Best+We Have No Idea.

    We want you to have a good time and we certainly don't want you to tell all your friends that we suck in bed. It can be a lot of pressure. So, sometimes we just pretend we don't care and sometimes the pretending becomes habitual. Really, though, deep down, we care a lot.

    5. You Probably Know More About What Sex Means To Us Than We Do

    Men don't usually get the opportunity to observe themselves during the physical act of love. Women, on the hand get a first POV of what we're like when we're doing it. If you really want to know what sex means to us, try to let go of your assumptions and just pay attention, because...

    6. We're All Actually Pretty Different

    This is the biggest secret of all, because it's not actually a secret. Everyone already knows that there's no fail-safe formula for understanding men. If you want to understand a man sexually, you have to have actual sex with him. Lots and lots of times. Unfortunately, it's the only way.

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    1 Wacked out thing guys crave in a woman
    This is WEIRD but makes him fall in LOVE
    The Dumbest thing that makes him fall in LOVE!
    Get him drunk on LOVE (Weird Method)
    Do you know a man's most secret & important desire
    that he craves in a woman?

    How guys know when they're in LOVE.

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