Maybe you’ve never seen an attractive lesbian because it isn’t as obvious to you that they are gay. If a girl is walking around with a mullet and cargo pants, it’s obvious she is gay, but if a girl has long hair and high heels on, she could be gay and you wouldn’t automatically assume that she was. If you go to a lesbian event in Los Angeles or San Francisco there are some of the hottest girls I’ve ever seen, gay or straight.

One comment/question I’ve heard numerous times that should be added to the list is, “So I get if a girl is attracted to a femmine girl,a man can’t compete with that, But if a girl is a attracted to a masculine girl, why doesn’t she just go for the real thing and have sex with a boy?” What these people don’t realize is, though the girl may be attracted to a masculine appearance, their butch counterpart is still a woman emotionally. There is a understanding and nuturing that comes from a woman, that I’ve never found in a heterosexual relationship.